I know I have a lot of things to be thankful for like my health, family, and comfortable lifestyle. But this week it’s been hard to give thanks. My wife has been nearly immobilized by back pain, I’ve had a constant toothache, and our Thanksgiving plans were put on hold. So, I found it hard this week to give thanks.
Thanksgiving is really a special time to give thanks to God who has given us so much. But in the midst of pain and difficulties we can forget to give him thanks.
So, why is it important to remember to give God thanks?
One reason is that all that he causes to happen to us is intended for our good and his purposes. “What possible good could come from my wife’s back pain and my toothache” you may ask? The truth is I don’t know, but I can still trust that he will keep his promise to work all things together for my good and his purposes (Romans 8:28-29).
Another reason we give thanks is that God likes it. In fact, he commands it. “In all things give thanks for this is God’s will for you” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).
We also give thanks because of how God will use the situation to transform us to be more like him. His goal is not so much to make us feel good as it’s to make us godly. Sometimes, this means he doesn’t meet our desires. He also disrupts our plans.
In addition, we give thanks for “bad things” that often lead to good things. In my life these are some of the painful circumstances that led to blessings:
- Getting fired from my first job out of college led to a successful military career
- Being rejected by a cute coed freed me to later find the girl of my dreams
- Being rejected by a Christian organization enabled me to work where God wanted me
- Being broken by an abusive home led me to receive salvation and 45 years of steady spiritual growth
We also give thanks to God because he is good. He loves us all the time, even when we are bad. He deals with us graciously. He makes sure that what happens to us is good, acceptable and perfect (Romans 12:2).
Psychologists tell us that giving thanks is good for our health and emotional well-being. Thankful people are often
- Happier
- Less stressed
- Better rested
- Healthier
Maybe this is why one of my favorite disciplines is to thank God for the blessings in my life. It helps me see the good in my circumstances.
So, may we grow ever more thankful to our good God. Though we may be in pain, or things don’t turn out the way we had hoped, we can still thank him for the good he promises is being done. And when we experience the many blessings that make us feel good, may we remember to give thanks because every good and perfect gift comes from him (James 1:17).
Great insight into remembering that we need to see things from God’s perspective and not our own.
Thanks Stan.
Thank you, Brother, for sharing with us, good God-given reminders.
Thanks Karen. I hope to see you and Gary soon.