Billy Graham once said having a daily Quiet Time was his most important spiritual discipline. It’s mine too. I know how helpful it has been to stabilize my walk and focus my attention on God’s ways.
However, in my early Christian years I put more emphasis on having a devotional time than was healthy. I almost lost my relationship with my future wife when I blurted out to her “I don’t see how anyone could walk with God and not have a daily Quiet Time” in response to her confessed struggle over practicing the discipline.
Over the years, this time has grown to be the highlight of my day. I enjoy it as I spend time in his presence.
Why should we have a daily Quiet Time?
Spending time with God in this way is similar to when Mary sat at Jesus feet and listened to him (Luke 10:38-42). Jesus commended her for doing this and warned Martha her busyness was distracting her from listening to what he had to say.
Being with Jesus in a devotional time allows us to receive from him guidance, encouragement and insight into the perplexing challenges we face. We also grow in our friendship and confidence in his willingness and ability to help us through the thorny issues we often face.
We are also better able to see life from his perspective and grow wiser.
We not only get to know God better, but also ourselves as he reveals our hearts. He grows us as we make the effort to be available to him in this way.
Practicing this discipline is a way to show God we put him first. We don’t try to change the world in our own fortitude alone, but wait for him to give us the strength.
So, how do we connect to God in a daily Quiet Time?
For me, an early morning time works best. It helps start my day off with God’s perspective. If you’re not a morning person, another time of the day may be better.
Remember to be flexible and open to God’s leading in what to do. Focus on the Word and prayer. It’s not a religious duty. It is a living, breathing time with God. He is a real Person who may guide us through our thoughts, the Word or in some other way to do something different than we had planned.
In recent years, I have often begun the time with asking him to reveal my heart. Often, he uses my feelings to help me identify my heart beliefs. “Search me, oh God, and know my heart; try me and know my anxious thoughts; and see if there be any hurtful way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way (Psalm 139:22-23, NASB).
Once revealed, ask God for help in living his truth, for we can’t live the Christian life without his Spirit working (John 15:5).
The Quiet Time is a container in which we can practice a number of other spiritual disciplines such as:
- Meditate and apply a passage of Scripture (Joshua 1:8)
- Pray the Scriptures and making personal requests based on the Scriptures
- Pray for others
- Pray for ourselves
- Read and apply a devotional
- Listen for God’s voice in silence
Stay in your capacity to spend time with God. Start small and as your capacity grows, spend more time with him. There is nothing magical in a devotional time. But it needs to be supernatural. If he doesn’t reveal and work, nothing happens.
May we remember God has created us to have an intimate, love relationship with him. A daily devotional time can help this relationship develop. We are his children. From this reality, we are to serve others that they may experience the peace and joy of walking with our Father.
Hi Rich…a very thought provoking lesson. Thanks for your continued dedication to God’s work and sharing it with others.
Thanks LInda for your kind words.
Rich